Why do women have sex? Is it purely for pleasure or the desire to reproduce? In their ground-breaking book, clinical psychologist Cindy Meston and evolutionary psychologist David Buss investigate the underlying sexual desires of women and identify 237 distinct motivations for sex. Drawing on more than a thousand intensive interviews conducted solely for the book, as well as their pioneering research on physiological response and evolutionary emotions, Meston and Buss give us a remarkably complex and nuanced portrait of female sexuality. They explore the use of sex as a defensive tactic against a man's infidelity (protection), as a ploy to boost self-confidence (status), as a barter for gifts (resource acquisition), or even as a cure for a headache (medication). "Why Women Have Sex" explores the deep-seated psychology and biology of female sexuality, and promises to inform every woman's - and her partner's - awareness of her relationship to sex and her own sexuality.
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得克萨斯大学奥斯汀分校的戴维•巴斯:David Buss,进化心理学领域的创始人之一,著书多部,包括《欲望的演化》和《危险激情》。
得克萨斯大学奥斯汀分校的辛迪•梅斯顿:Cindy Meston,研究女性性爱的世界著名研究者,她同时负责大学里研究女性性爱体验的梅斯顿性心理生理学实验室。
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我认为性是爱的一种表达方式,但绝不是唯一的表达方式。在床笫间,我向爱人表达我的爱和信任并给他我最美好的一切。这是因为我爱他。我用身体满足爱人(生理、心理、情感的需要),让他知道我们是彼此相爱的。我可以亲吻或爱抚他人,但我只和爱人分享我的身体。 ——异性恋女,29岁
说实话,我从来没想过性就是为了满足欲望,在我看来,性具有更深层的意义。我能碰到这么好的男人,是我的福气。过去我们两地相隔,饱尝了相思之苦,从心底认识到了彼此的重要性,理解了爱的真谛,所以倍加珍惜现在。在缠绵悱恻中,我望着他的眼睛……那种感觉难以形容……就好像爱情得到了升华,达到了最高境界。 ——异性恋女,38岁
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